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Viewing houses causing anxiety

Becky

Hi,

I have started looking for houses to buy with my partner and, before every viewing, I feel this massive bubble of anxiety in my chest. I’m finding myself unable to think about anything else and I keep bursting into tears.

I think my dislike of change is playing a part mixed with worries about loving a house and not getting it. This is made worse because I see myself as the weak link because I don’t earn very much so it limits our possibilities.

I’m not sure what I want from posting. I just thought someone in here might understand. Always happy for advice too.

Thank you for reading.

B

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  • Hi, I’m new here. It’s nice to read through the good advice that you’ve received.


    I’m not exactly in the same position, but my partner and I are looking to move rentals and as much as I know that it will be a good thing, I’m scared of the change. Recently we were looking at a house literally just around the corner but I just got overwhelmed.

    I also see myself as the weak link as I’m not working and it’s hindering our chances of being accepted anywhere. 

    Anyway, I understand some of what you are feeling and I hope you find a lovely home soon Slight smile

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  • Hi, I’m new here. It’s nice to read through the good advice that you’ve received.


    I’m not exactly in the same position, but my partner and I are looking to move rentals and as much as I know that it will be a good thing, I’m scared of the change. Recently we were looking at a house literally just around the corner but I just got overwhelmed.

    I also see myself as the weak link as I’m not working and it’s hindering our chances of being accepted anywhere. 

    Anyway, I understand some of what you are feeling and I hope you find a lovely home soon Slight smile

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