• Replies 11 replies
  • Subscribers 86 subscribers
  • Views 641 views
  • Users 0 members are here
Options
Related
Hints and tips
  • To quote someone's message, first select/highlight the relevant text, and then use the Quote button that appears
  • To "mention" someone, type @ followed by the start of the forum name, and choose from the list; that person will get a notification of being mentioned

Conflict

NAS94658

I'm going to keep this short because I could write a book on this one issue. I had a conflict a while back with someone and they humilated and belittled me in front of a large group of people. Ever since then I have wanted revenge or a the very least have hoped for something bad to happen to him. But to my knowledge nothing has occured to him. I'm just hoping if someone has ever had the same issue and what are their thoughts on this matter. Why do bad things never happent to crappy people? I certainly did not deserve what happened to me so where is the natural order of things? where is this karma I hear about? This issue is far worse than it sounds, it is behind a lot of the current issues I'm having. Whats your thoughts? Do you have any advice?

Parents

  • Yep I've wanted someone to suffer for making me and others suffer - never been able to do the revenge thing tho'.  I'm with Uhane on this one - bad stuff happens to all people, can't tell where it starts but maybe you can work out a way of not passing it on -  not cool to aim for revenge as I reckon it doesn't end it  (even tho' maybe they deserve it... ).   Not ideal to take out one's own sh1t on other people either - reckon that could turn a person nasty.   Finding what it feels like to be peaceful or not / noticing when not and then sorting out what is the trigger/solution (can be external/can be internal to you) then funnily enough when you've got an angle on that often the answer was there all along.  Not necessarily difficult to understand - just difficult to believe for one reason or another.  

Reply

  • Yep I've wanted someone to suffer for making me and others suffer - never been able to do the revenge thing tho'.  I'm with Uhane on this one - bad stuff happens to all people, can't tell where it starts but maybe you can work out a way of not passing it on -  not cool to aim for revenge as I reckon it doesn't end it  (even tho' maybe they deserve it... ).   Not ideal to take out one's own sh1t on other people either - reckon that could turn a person nasty.   Finding what it feels like to be peaceful or not / noticing when not and then sorting out what is the trigger/solution (can be external/can be internal to you) then funnily enough when you've got an angle on that often the answer was there all along.  Not necessarily difficult to understand - just difficult to believe for one reason or another.  

Children
No Data