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Conflict

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I'm going to keep this short because I could write a book on this one issue. I had a conflict a while back with someone and they humilated and belittled me in front of a large group of people. Ever since then I have wanted revenge or a the very least have hoped for something bad to happen to him. But to my knowledge nothing has occured to him. I'm just hoping if someone has ever had the same issue and what are their thoughts on this matter. Why do bad things never happent to crappy people? I certainly did not deserve what happened to me so where is the natural order of things? where is this karma I hear about? This issue is far worse than it sounds, it is behind a lot of the current issues I'm having. Whats your thoughts? Do you have any advice?

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  • When people are in a group and someone picks on someone else they often don’t speak up because they don’t want a target on their backs or the group to turn on them.

    However many in the group will not be looking at you in a negative way but will be wary of the antagonist. They may see him as untrustworthy or unpleasant but not show it to his face.

    Even though he may feel he has the upper hand and is ‘winning’, people will often see him for who he is and treat him accordingly. He damages his position be attacking you but this will be hidden and not immediately obvious. 


    Rest assured people who attack others do themselves no favours in the end and always get their comeuppance. 

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  • When people are in a group and someone picks on someone else they often don’t speak up because they don’t want a target on their backs or the group to turn on them.

    However many in the group will not be looking at you in a negative way but will be wary of the antagonist. They may see him as untrustworthy or unpleasant but not show it to his face.

    Even though he may feel he has the upper hand and is ‘winning’, people will often see him for who he is and treat him accordingly. He damages his position be attacking you but this will be hidden and not immediately obvious. 


    Rest assured people who attack others do themselves no favours in the end and always get their comeuppance. 

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