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Conflict

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I'm going to keep this short because I could write a book on this one issue. I had a conflict a while back with someone and they humilated and belittled me in front of a large group of people. Ever since then I have wanted revenge or a the very least have hoped for something bad to happen to him. But to my knowledge nothing has occured to him. I'm just hoping if someone has ever had the same issue and what are their thoughts on this matter. Why do bad things never happent to crappy people? I certainly did not deserve what happened to me so where is the natural order of things? where is this karma I hear about? This issue is far worse than it sounds, it is behind a lot of the current issues I'm having. Whats your thoughts? Do you have any advice?

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  • Hi

    I used to feel like this about certain individuals but found this to be a bad pattern repeating itself. Let’s face it the amount of times we can replay things over and over it’s no wonder bad feelings occupied my head for quite some time. 
    I learned to let go and thought that even if something bad happened to them they wouldn’t learn from that anyway, they probably don’t even think they did anything wrong in the first place. I have even thought that if something bad happened to them I can end up feeling sorry for them after which then would cause me to feel guilty. I know this totally depends on the severity of what the other/others did and understand why we can feel this way. I just think for me if I want a peaceful existence it’s probably best I don’t try to make all the bad people see the error of their ways. 

    I guess I think their day will come eventually. 

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  • Hi

    I used to feel like this about certain individuals but found this to be a bad pattern repeating itself. Let’s face it the amount of times we can replay things over and over it’s no wonder bad feelings occupied my head for quite some time. 
    I learned to let go and thought that even if something bad happened to them they wouldn’t learn from that anyway, they probably don’t even think they did anything wrong in the first place. I have even thought that if something bad happened to them I can end up feeling sorry for them after which then would cause me to feel guilty. I know this totally depends on the severity of what the other/others did and understand why we can feel this way. I just think for me if I want a peaceful existence it’s probably best I don’t try to make all the bad people see the error of their ways. 

    I guess I think their day will come eventually. 

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