Recently diagnosed at 67 looking to make friends

Hi there this is my first time posting on here.My name is Gary and I am 67 years old feeling quite isolated and looking for new connections friends

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  • Hello Gary

    I too was late diagnosed in my 50's, and it has been good to finally have an understanding,  my life suddenly makes sense. have you recently been diagnosed?

    Have you any special interests Gary?

  • Hi Gigi 

    listening to classical music,nature and being outside.How about you Gigi

  • Hey Gary

    Just wondering how things are for you now. It’s been a few months since your diagnosis and I hope everything is starting to make sense? 

  • Thank you Gary.

    Ill take a look at the podcasts. 

  • Hi Take 5 

    I totally get it ! I am so sorry that you have to wait an agonising 10 months.I do remember when I was feeling very unsure and up and down before I took the plunge to pay privately hearing that most people who suspect or think they are autistic ARE autistic when they get assessed! 
    Likewise I became obsessed with listening to podcasts and watching you tube videos.I can recommend a few channels on you tube that might help you to feel less stressed about it.

    Adult with Autism 

    Am I Neurodivergent 

    Autism Chrysalis 

    Neurodivergent Doctor 

    Inside The Auti-Verse 

    Kojo Sarfo 

    Creative Autistic 

    Essy Knopf 

    Woodshed Theory 

    I hope this helps and let me know 

    I do feel what you’re going through.

    Gary 

    • I’m pleased to hear that you are working your way through everything. I am only self realised atm but I have 10 months to go until my assessment. I’m terrified for the reasons you are mentioning above. I feel like these thoughts are the only thing that occupies my mind at present, that and recognition that I have many more meltdowns that I ever thought I did. On a bad day I can feel like I could ask to be admitted, on an ok day I feel like there is hope. I understand how much those thoughts of self validation can really take over and just want to say don’t be so hard on yourself. I try to tell myself the same and hopefully this is part of the journey to feel more comfortable in our own skin. 

      Take care and thank you for asking
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    • I’m pleased to hear that you are working your way through everything. I am only self realised atm but I have 10 months to go until my assessment. I’m terrified for the reasons you are mentioning above. I feel like these thoughts are the only thing that occupies my mind at present, that and recognition that I have many more meltdowns that I ever thought I did. On a bad day I can feel like I could ask to be admitted, on an ok day I feel like there is hope. I understand how much those thoughts of self validation can really take over and just want to say don’t be so hard on yourself. I try to tell myself the same and hopefully this is part of the journey to feel more comfortable in our own skin. 

      Take care and thank you for asking
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  • Thank you Gary.

    Ill take a look at the podcasts. 

  • Hi Take 5 

    I totally get it ! I am so sorry that you have to wait an agonising 10 months.I do remember when I was feeling very unsure and up and down before I took the plunge to pay privately hearing that most people who suspect or think they are autistic ARE autistic when they get assessed! 
    Likewise I became obsessed with listening to podcasts and watching you tube videos.I can recommend a few channels on you tube that might help you to feel less stressed about it.

    Adult with Autism 

    Am I Neurodivergent 

    Autism Chrysalis 

    Neurodivergent Doctor 

    Inside The Auti-Verse 

    Kojo Sarfo 

    Creative Autistic 

    Essy Knopf 

    Woodshed Theory 

    I hope this helps and let me know 

    I do feel what you’re going through.

    Gary