Is it ok to have preferences?

I am not attracted to the people local to my area, they seem uninteresting.

Yesterday I went to my local supermarket and saw a young lady working there, she was tall, slim with lovely brown hair and, helping an elderly customer, spoke with an accent that was perhaps American or Canadian, I don't know.

I also like the idols I see in music videos and entertainment videos they feature in showing their talent, personality and unique looks.

Once in a while I spot a girl wearing a pretty outfit that catches my eye.

To me they are a breath of fresh air compared to the local people who I find not interesting and run of the mill, no offence intended.

Regarding the title I often prefer women with black or brown hair and brown eyes with a slim or average build not covered in tattoos like most people in my town.  I value personality most of all.

Sorry for rambling I am battling heartburn right now and can't sleep.

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  • Well, at least you know your type and what you're attracted to. Everyone has preferences. It could be some kind of biological marker, to expand the gene pool by trying to find something unique and different about people, to diversify genetics. I mean, I guess that's why there's celebrities, people who stand out from the crowd. But I rather blend in, yet I'm terrible at it, and I have the tendency to stick out like a sore thumb.  Anyways, I hope your heartburn improves.

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  • Well, at least you know your type and what you're attracted to. Everyone has preferences. It could be some kind of biological marker, to expand the gene pool by trying to find something unique and different about people, to diversify genetics. I mean, I guess that's why there's celebrities, people who stand out from the crowd. But I rather blend in, yet I'm terrible at it, and I have the tendency to stick out like a sore thumb.  Anyways, I hope your heartburn improves.

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