Do you like or want to - work?

I have recently retired from work. It was long awaited and I have not missed the job at all ( the people I worked with were nice, but the job itself had become a mixture of stressful and tedious)

I have never particularly enjoyed working. I have got some sense of satisfaction from doing a job well during certain periods of my working life, but in most jobs I had there were people - mostly managers - who I really did not enjoy spending my days with. I get bored quickly and so jobs became mundane in a short period of time, and if I put myself forward to do higher level tasks (that I was capable of) I was either refused the role or ended up doing the higher level stuff without getting the extra pay for it. And I've suffered burn out from time to time due to the stress of work making me exhausted.

I know that a lot of autistic people are unable to work but would like to, and that many people get a sense of self worth from working and a better lifestyle (due to having wages) But I feel that society may over value work in some ways, and that maybe it programmes us to think that not working is lazy or unproductive? However there are some wealthy people who do little to no work and nobody calls them lazy. I heard a saying somewhere that I like: "we're human beings, not human doings". Perhaps that's a good answer next time someone asks - "so, what do you do?"

I just wondered what everyone's views were about working?

If you currently work, would you give up working if you became financially independent?

If you do not work but would like to, or want a career change, what would your dream job be?

If you do not work and have no wish to, or are retired or cannot work due to health reasons, how do you structure your days?

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  • I am 54 and despise working. I have never pushed myself to have a career, rather than a job, its just too overwhelming. I hate being called out for doing things wrong, and looking stupid. I have always just wanted to keep my head down and not be noticed, difficult when you are not the boss. Last few years have been hell, I am just burnt out.

    Good news is I have 46 working days left in this job! We are downsizing and relocating to Lincolnshire. The house needs lots of work, so I am taking 5-6 months to do the work off while my wife gets a new job. Then I can go and get a min wage job with no stress, no mortgage or debt. Sadly the jobs I would love to do are generally done by volunteers like museum guides. Love books but Libraries and would love to be an assistant. More than likely end up with a driving job or in a supermarket.

    Rob

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  • I am 54 and despise working. I have never pushed myself to have a career, rather than a job, its just too overwhelming. I hate being called out for doing things wrong, and looking stupid. I have always just wanted to keep my head down and not be noticed, difficult when you are not the boss. Last few years have been hell, I am just burnt out.

    Good news is I have 46 working days left in this job! We are downsizing and relocating to Lincolnshire. The house needs lots of work, so I am taking 5-6 months to do the work off while my wife gets a new job. Then I can go and get a min wage job with no stress, no mortgage or debt. Sadly the jobs I would love to do are generally done by volunteers like museum guides. Love books but Libraries and would love to be an assistant. More than likely end up with a driving job or in a supermarket.

    Rob

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