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Antisocial neighbours

Rose
2 months ago

i have bad antisocial neighbours the worst they have done is have a knife in the close, but they have thrown heavy things from the top floor window and lots of shouting and they deal drugs and are scary. 

The knife thing was supposed be going through court there is video footage, but it keeps getting delayed. 

The community police want me to bring my antisocial diary as they think my housing are not doing enough about this, but they said to come to their office - there office is in an industrial estate. I cant get there, I have never been there before, a taxi is too much money and I would get in a panic. I did not want to say that I am autistic as I mask well and come across neurotypical. But the whole building which I can see on the google is not the type of building I do well in. Its too big and in a rough area. I prefer the little village police station that I can get to easily on bus. 

How do I cancel the appointment? it is just too uncomfortable for me, and I will end up lost in a panic in a quiet unsafe industrial estate, I think they forget some people dont drive. No buses there either. 

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  • 2 months ago

    Dear Rose,

    I feel your pain I am in a nightmare neighbour issue myself . I will tell you about mine and offer you some advice where I can.

    Basically my CO Residents have hated my Sister and I we live together and this sorted from day one.They have done things like overuse outside trip lights which disturb sleep and the enjoyment of our house.Piling rubbish and materials against our gable wall. Weoponizing their cars making very nasty comments.We have had our entrance blocked by their drivers and then had a volley of abuse when we ask them to move.On two occasions the Police did at least seek two the drivers.

    Here is the irony Police and council know I have Autism and my Sister has OCD I also have anxiety and OCD.Earlier  this year after nearly 2 years of us compiling to the council and Police the council issued me with A CPW which is a Community Protection Warning think of the ASBO.I was also arrested in a very frightening way that I won't go into on this forum.I ma vigorously defending these false accusations but my life is hell.basically the Council will not provide any evidence and the Police evidence is just mob witness priming and no real hard facts.

    So for you I would say-

    1- You should tell Police and council you have Autism despite my experience they should make reasonable adjustments.

    2- The Police should agree to come out to you they could do this in non uniform and plain clothes.

    Please I really hope you will not give up non euro divergent people in  y experience do not get us but the Police and Council are meant to understand.I would also say in your case it sounds like there should be arrests and custodians for what is going on and then the Council and Police should try and bring parties together to create a safe environment 

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  • 2 months ago

    Dear Rose,

    I feel your pain I am in a nightmare neighbour issue myself . I will tell you about mine and offer you some advice where I can.

    Basically my CO Residents have hated my Sister and I we live together and this sorted from day one.They have done things like overuse outside trip lights which disturb sleep and the enjoyment of our house.Piling rubbish and materials against our gable wall. Weoponizing their cars making very nasty comments.We have had our entrance blocked by their drivers and then had a volley of abuse when we ask them to move.On two occasions the Police did at least seek two the drivers.

    Here is the irony Police and council know I have Autism and my Sister has OCD I also have anxiety and OCD.Earlier  this year after nearly 2 years of us compiling to the council and Police the council issued me with A CPW which is a Community Protection Warning think of the ASBO.I was also arrested in a very frightening way that I won't go into on this forum.I ma vigorously defending these false accusations but my life is hell.basically the Council will not provide any evidence and the Police evidence is just mob witness priming and no real hard facts.

    So for you I would say-

    1- You should tell Police and council you have Autism despite my experience they should make reasonable adjustments.

    2- The Police should agree to come out to you they could do this in non uniform and plain clothes.

    Please I really hope you will not give up non euro divergent people in  y experience do not get us but the Police and Council are meant to understand.I would also say in your case it sounds like there should be arrests and custodians for what is going on and then the Council and Police should try and bring parties together to create a safe environment 

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