Published on 12, July, 2020
I have become extremely hateful and bitter towards the world. I constantly feel like an absolute loser with nothing to offer anyone else. I am 31 jobless,childless and above all socially inept and incompetent at all most everything I try. I have tried to live alone and I failed at that, I am now in a supported living accommodation and I have even messed up that! I have had relationships and friendships but for multiple reasons they have failed. Theres also alot more that bothers me about myself and the outside, so much in fact I could write several pages. I tell myself lies and excuses to keep going but what is the point. I have become incredibly misanthropic and depressed, so much so that I am beginning to have thoughts that I'm not proud of. I have told others about certain feelings and thoughts I have but they do not take me seriously. I have sort help but no avail. I think I have become a a bit of an alcoholic. My family dont know the extent of my feelings or my day to day behaviour. I curse god (if there is one) that I have aspergers. I have given up on people and the world around me and have become very pessimistic and a bit of a nihilist. I have a bleak outlook on life (not that my outlook was ever good, or that I was ever an optimist) I have inadequacies in almost every aspect of my life and self esteem is non existent. Just wondering if anyone feels this shitty? I'm sure there isnt any advice or information that could help but whatever.
NAS94658,
Yup, I've felt that low too but I know it's not always to the same degree of darkness so that's what pulls me up. It's good you're recognising that it's a negative spin you are in and that you find other people hard to trust (I go through those feelings too unfortunately). Words can't really describe how painful it is. If you are at the point of planning ways out, that's when I tend to reach out to someone as it's very final to have that as an option. I'm hoping you're not at that stage and that you are fighting through this blip which I hope it is. Obviously I can only go by my life experience and therefore don't know the extent of yours but I really hope the intense depression improves and you are able to go on with a life that gives you some comfort in the long run.
Thank you for your reply. It is not a blip I'm going through, rather I have always felt this way. Only the past 2-3 years have this feelings become amplified and I find it harder and harder to ignore them. I dont know if its because I'm getting older. I suppose the teenage version of myself didnt foresee myself as the person I am now, and its at times unbearable. What are your coping mechanisms?