Is this normal ?

Justbe 4 months ago

Hi,

I was wondering if any of you have experienced this.

I've seen this guy in a group setting a few times, but last week I got the feeling that he 'likes' me. I may be being judgemental, by assuming he is not right for me (especially, when I don't know him that well).

But never the less, I keep thinking about him. I think about him holding me and looking out for me. Nothing beyond that. It's just fantasy. Is this normal ? When the reality is it won't happen.

Please don't think, that I think I'm 'all that' because that is not the case at all.

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TheCatWoman 4 months ago

I think, it all sounds fairly normal, you're imagining being in various situations with him to see how they feel, do you want him closer, further away, at the distance he is now?

What is the 'all that' that you fear us thinking about you?
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Justbe 4 months ago in reply to TheCatWoman

Thank you for your reply.

The 'all that' is that I fear you may think that I think I'm better than him (because I don't think we are suited). When I'm not better than him. We are just different.

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TheCatWoman 4 months ago in reply to Justbe

Don't be daft, I didn't think that at all, there's lots of reasons why you might think you're not suited to someone, anything from insecurity about your attractiveness as a friend or partner, to your gut telling you there's something "off" about this person. Attraction often seems to be about what repels you as what attracts you.
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Justbe 3 months ago in reply to TheCatWoman

Thank you.

I'm still thinking about him

I can drive myself quite mad at times. X
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Justbe 3 months ago in reply to TheCatWoman

Thank you.

I'm still thinking about him

I can drive myself quite mad at times. X
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