Published on 12, July, 2020
Whether you're setting a boundary or asking for something. Whatever the context.
I hate it and feel like I'm being judged all the time. Everyone has preferences when it comes to friendships (as you should) but the odd person has indicated that I'm asking for too much, even though I feel I'm being completely reasonable. It might just be the way I put it across but still.
It's silky because I know that I wouldn't judge someone else if they did the same, but I automatically default to being a bad person that deserves judgement.
I'm hoping I'm not alone.
I often feel like that I am being perceived as "being difficult" for NOT asserting myself. Often, I simply don't give a monkey's X!