Published on 12, July, 2020
I was wondering what your struggles with social skills are.
Maybe you have overcome your challenges, or maybe you are still trying to figure things out.
did i offend you? if i did sorry
awkwardness people hate the truth and i hate liars so some times it ends up in a conflict i am doing better tho
nope it was all my ex she delt with every thing even tho we are split up we still and are friends so not the worst i last got into trouble eight years ago so doing well
but thats good people want to comunicate with u so you can't be that bad
People I've known.These days, I bail on people who won't give me the time of day.When people want to hang out with me, the try to include me in conversations.This isn't them being "bad", but rather a compatibility thing.
i always interupt convorsations sorry about my spelling i've had a drink today am not drinking now tho just need to get tired, see the people turning their backs is it people you know?
Jail. Wow. That is intense.Since diagnosis, have you been better supported? Supported to understand yourself. Supported to better manage yourself. It is really tough. There is a whole invisible problem, that other people don't see and can't relate to.
Maybe you can relate.
With me, I am not the shy type. I love entering conversations. I love being involved.What I noticed is that there is a lot of blocking that happens. This is where people deliberately position their bodies to prevent you from entering conversations.The other notable thing that happens is interruptions. I can be speaking then someone chimes in with a sudden conversational pivot.Another thing I noticed was people being frustrated at me but not explaining why.It is hard to recieive feedback. So I often end up angering people, but never knowing why they are angry at me. If I knew, I would change my behavior.
it hinders me very bad to the point of jail but ive calmed down now it was my ex that told me i had something so went to doctor and was told asd funny thing is a actualy cried
In what ways does it help or hinder you?
i usually drink to socialize but even then it can go ok or bad