What book?

My 30 yo daughter recently diagnosed with autism and BPD lives independently in her own place. I would like best book recommendations to read to help and understand please for me and husband? 

Parents
  • The two I asked my husband to read were Autism in Adults and Avoiding Anxiety in Autistic Adults both by Luke Beardon.  I think it helped him understand some of my struggles and I also refer back to them more regularly than any of the others I've read.

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  • The two I asked my husband to read were Autism in Adults and Avoiding Anxiety in Autistic Adults both by Luke Beardon.  I think it helped him understand some of my struggles and I also refer back to them more regularly than any of the others I've read.

Children