why points?

Hya

I am an autistic adult and just joined because I haven't got the feeling I get proper support elsewhere.

I have been diagnosed 5 years ago and at the moment struggle a lot.

Bow, I filled in profile and saw you're not allowed to put in identifiers (sorry, just did, hate to be mentioned as a number) and I really don't get why I should get "achievemenbts" and points...I'm not a toddler anymore, I don't need a sticker for everything i do "right" or whatever so can someone explain to me why this feels very patronising and how I can get help to cope instead of only being able to moan about things?