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How to get my to understand

Rach91
9 months ago

Hi my name Rachel and I’m on the spectrum my boyfriend is also on the spectrum. Basically we could be having a conversation on WhatsApp and he will just disappear mid conversation not just for a few minutes it could be over an hour. I get really frustrated by this and I find it extremely rude. I have tried and tried and tried to get him to understand but we just end up arguing about it. He says he busy with his dad or he over a friends and I just say to him why couldn’t you have told me this instead of leaving me hanging that triggers my anxiety. How can we resolve this I have tried talking to him about this so many times but I just can’t get through to him. Has anyone got advice I would really appreciate it. 

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  • 9 months ago

    If you are both on the Spectrum then surely you would be acting more or less the same as Him.
    You seem to be Mindful of His behaviour so would He be the same if you copied Him ?
    Why not do the same and see how He reacts ?
    If He notices just like you do then you can make your concerns known.
    It works both ways.

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  • 9 months ago

    If you are both on the Spectrum then surely you would be acting more or less the same as Him.
    You seem to be Mindful of His behaviour so would He be the same if you copied Him ?
    Why not do the same and see how He reacts ?
    If He notices just like you do then you can make your concerns known.
    It works both ways.

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