Published on 12, July, 2020
I'm not sure where mine is going. I always give up on my hopes and dreams. Would you say you've enjoyed your life so far? What was the best part so far? Where is yours heading? What do you see ahead of you? I'm curious more than anything and hoping that my spark will come back.
It's just so complex. At least for me it is. If all had gone well I'd likely not have met my wife, and likely wouldn't have my wonderful chosen family. My life isn't heading anywhere in particular.
I know what you mean. I prefer the music to them as people. They can be hilarious though. And I'm jealous that Liam got Lily Allen because I've always fancied her.
Yeah, people have said I resemble him. I wish...He's a handsome devil. Well, kinda, in a gobby caveman kinda way. He's a bit of a yobbo. Love the band though.
Is that Liam Gallagher in your profile pic? RASTA
To be perfectly fair, i'm not a drugdealer, or aspire to be one. But I admire Tony's sense of direction, he knew where he was heading. I don't. Know where I'm heading. "Keep your head on the ground, and reach for the solar orbs," or something...
Nothing wrong with that. Healthy lass. Healthy red blooded wench
Maybe when I meet that special hot hunk to be my boyfriend/husband - I’m always on hunk-watch and I’m a shameless flirt, my aunt says that I’m man-mad, but I can never resist a handsome man lol
Oh just the usual...banter
What happened on your night out last night?
My life is both going goodly and badly at the same time..I can't decide which
My life's going badly. I feel like I've fallen into a deep ditch. I can\t do anything but put off climbing out if it
Same place as everyone else...
Bear Gryls sounds like a survivlalist BBQ, lol.
Allyboo said:I know what you mean, like the Talking Heads song Road to Nowhere
I often say “ My get up and go has got up and gone.”
I lost my " spark " Years ago.Even Bear Gryls can't get me going !
One of the things I like about the future is not many of us know if we have one minute left or 30 years, that’s part of mystery.
Cheers mate....my heart on the sleeve...gets me in trouble and delivers good in equal measure IRL...but I feel (rightly or wrongly) FAR FAR FAR more able to be open and honest in this place....for whatever that might be worth....and I think it is a great reflection on the nature of people that inhabit this place.....even if I still get it proper wrong sometimes!
Number said:But fwiw, in this instance, my spidey-sense tells me that any non-asshat parent would be profoundly proud of the Pegg that I see. With oodles of respect.
But fwiw, in this instance, my spidey-sense tells me that any non-asshat parent would be profoundly proud of the Pegg that I see.
With oodles of respect.
What a lovely comment, and it is seconded by me.
I can't know what your mum thought of you ...but you provide enough info above for me to proffer a more likely (or at least equally plausible) assessment of what she might have been feeling about you....based solely on what you have written above.
She was worried for you because she could perhaps readily see that you were not happy and she feared for your future?
She didn't know that you are different, and in fairness to her, nor did you know either....in any way that you could usefully explain?
She thought that, if you tried harder to conform, and fit in, then you could perhaps be happy. I strongly suspect that for a long while, you thought this too?
So, if you can entertain the above questions as a plausible pretext for the reality of how your mum was feeling about you, I hope you can then interpret her "demands" upon you to "fit in" as her TRYING to do her best for you ie. her demands were not predicated on "embarrassment and disappointment" in you, but actually her "best efforts" to logically help you to live a long and happy life.
I do sincerely apologise if this proffered alternative world view is neither helpful nor welcome....and potentially crosses a line. I mean no harm or upset to you nor do I view parents as some kind of endlessly enigmatic and benign force for good over their children.....some of them are DEFINITELY rogue asshats! But fwiw, in this instance, my spidey-sense tells me that any non-asshat parent would be profoundly proud of the Pegg that I see.
Number.