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Dating an NT and general dating stuff

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So, a friend of mine who is NT has asked me if I want to go out with him.

Has anyone ever dated an NT? Tips?

He isn't aware yet that I'm Autistic. How do I tell him? If it makes any difference, we've known each other for about a year or so now.

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  • If you have known him for a year then you must know by now if you are attracted to him, if you think about him, enjoy your time with him, have some feelings for him etc...and if he wants to take it further then he should be seen to be making an effort, not just giving you a direct question.

    Telling you not to tell someone else is controlling, and only makes me wonder what other things he is going to tell you to do if you get involved, I also wonder why doesn't he want others to know he is interested in you ? Will this be the case even if you do get involved, will he tell you not to tell anyone ?

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  • If you have known him for a year then you must know by now if you are attracted to him, if you think about him, enjoy your time with him, have some feelings for him etc...and if he wants to take it further then he should be seen to be making an effort, not just giving you a direct question.

    Telling you not to tell someone else is controlling, and only makes me wonder what other things he is going to tell you to do if you get involved, I also wonder why doesn't he want others to know he is interested in you ? Will this be the case even if you do get involved, will he tell you not to tell anyone ?

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