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Dating an NT and general dating stuff

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So, a friend of mine who is NT has asked me if I want to go out with him.

Has anyone ever dated an NT? Tips?

He isn't aware yet that I'm Autistic. How do I tell him? If it makes any difference, we've known each other for about a year or so now.

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  • All this asking you out and 'discuss our future' ...I find creepy...whatever happened to romance ?

    I thought if you wanted to get close to someone you would do so by spending time together and doing things together....and when you both mutually start enjoying each others company and get to know each other then you take it further.. it's as if he wants to cut all that out and just expects you to answer a question on whether or not you want to be partners,  no doubt if you agree he will expect to be in bed with you minutes later...I think you made the right decision.

    Getting involved with someone is not a simple yes or no, but at least saying no means you are not making a mistake.

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  • All this asking you out and 'discuss our future' ...I find creepy...whatever happened to romance ?

    I thought if you wanted to get close to someone you would do so by spending time together and doing things together....and when you both mutually start enjoying each others company and get to know each other then you take it further.. it's as if he wants to cut all that out and just expects you to answer a question on whether or not you want to be partners,  no doubt if you agree he will expect to be in bed with you minutes later...I think you made the right decision.

    Getting involved with someone is not a simple yes or no, but at least saying no means you are not making a mistake.

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