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Dating an NT and general dating stuff

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So, a friend of mine who is NT has asked me if I want to go out with him.

Has anyone ever dated an NT? Tips?

He isn't aware yet that I'm Autistic. How do I tell him? If it makes any difference, we've known each other for about a year or so now.

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  • I'm married to an NT.  I didn't know that I had Asperger's when we met or married.  He claims he knew there was "something wrong" with me within a couple of weeks of meeting.  Strange then that he still chose to stay with me, relocate country and marry me.

    He claimed that he understood me better when I got my diagnosis.  It hasn't changed his attitude about my deficits though.

    I would say that if you have known him for a year and he has still asked you out then he knows enough about you to like you despite whatever differences he may have noticed.

    Don't let your condition hold you back if you like him.

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  • I'm married to an NT.  I didn't know that I had Asperger's when we met or married.  He claims he knew there was "something wrong" with me within a couple of weeks of meeting.  Strange then that he still chose to stay with me, relocate country and marry me.

    He claimed that he understood me better when I got my diagnosis.  It hasn't changed his attitude about my deficits though.

    I would say that if you have known him for a year and he has still asked you out then he knows enough about you to like you despite whatever differences he may have noticed.

    Don't let your condition hold you back if you like him.

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