Published on 12, July, 2020
I saw this video about society having a medium amount. Here are two examples. You can talk too much or not enough. You can stand too close or too far away.
He mentioned how it's hard to know the proper medium amount when there are no clear lines to follow.
I mention this because I like this forum but I have anxiety that I may post too much and be annoying.
I spend 90% of any interaction with people asking myself "am I talking too much? or am I not talking enough?" especially with new people. It's tricky!
Autumn_Trees said:I spend 90% of any interaction with people asking myself "am I talking too much? or am I not talking enough?" especially with new people. It's tricky
Just take the time to say to them "please tell me if I talk too much or not enough - I never seem to know. So please, do tell me"
You have not given the person clear license to tell you what is right for them and if they don't say anything then you have got it right. Win-win!