Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi folks,
I have recently been diagnosed ADHD + Autism. I am 66 years old. I don't have to elaborate on the difficulties my life has held for me as an undiagnosed person. My thoughts though are for my partner of 30+ years who really could do with some support and solace herself.
Are there any NT partners out there who could offer some advice, support, encouragement for her. Even a coffee and company would be so welcome. She is a lovely person who has always been there for me and deserves some .
John.
Hello John, welcome to the club.
The following books may be helpful in your situation:
for your wife:
22 Things a Woman Must Know If She Loves a Man with Asperger’s Syndrome - Rudy Simone (2009)ISBN 9781849058032Loving someone with Asperger's syndrome_ understanding & connecting with your partner - Ariel, Cindy N (2012)ISBN 9781608820771The Other Half of Asperger Syndrome - Maxine Aston (2013)ISBN 9781849054980
for you:
Very Late Diagnosis of Asperger Syndrome - Wylie, Philip_ Beardon, Luke_ Heath, Sara (2014)ISBN 9781849054331
Hello Iain,
Thanks for this. Really appreciated. I have sent away for the Very Late Diagnosis book.
I am hoping to find some groups where NT partners can meet for mutual support.
Thanks again,
John