Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi I’m William I’m 18 and I’m autistic and I have got really obsessed with someone a 41 year old I just want to ask is this normal for me to become really obsessed cause I’m really worrying that I’ve ruined my perfect freindship with her and her son I feel so awful for it i never wanted it to end like this I feel so upset about it I’m worrying for her cause social services are involved and kinda the police cause of my obsessed behaviour I feel super awful for this I’m so upset every day I’m worried so much I’m gonna be taken away can anyone please give me some tips please about this
I'm sorry to say this, but if the police and social services are involved, it's already ruined and you're not going to un-ring that bell.
Your number one priority needs to be just stopping, because if you continue doing whatever it is you've been doing, it will continue to escalate. Accept what's happened and reflect on what you did so you can avoid repeating the same pattern in future. You almost certainly will want to look into therapy.
what TriS said. its done and anything you try to do to 'fix it' will not work as it is nothing more than the continuation of your obsession.
Ok I’m really sorry for wasting time
Yeah thanks I’m blocked so I can’t message her yeah good idea I won’t apologise until things have been properly sorted for myself to ge5 support I need
WilliamYoshi said:I’m super sorry
You listened and took the advice - no need to apologise to us.
And please, don't try to apologise to the lady and her son - just stay away from all contact until you speak to your therapist.
Good luck in your journey ahead
I’ve filled in online form for a therapist I have I’m really sorry everyone on here if I’m annoying u all I feel really bad I’m super sorry