Published on 12, July, 2020
I'm married to this person for over a decade, he is autistic, he spend his time talking to himself instead of talking to me, we don't have children because he never wanted children, but I did, now that I am 41 years old I regret bitterly I listened to him and now we don't have children. I feel like is getting more and more distant towards me. We don't make love. He just want to go out with other people. When I try to have a conversation with him, he just keeps shouting at me and getting aggressive.
I feel like I am alone in this marriage. All I I do is crying, I don't care if my husband is autistic, I just want him to love me as much as I love him.
Anybody like me I would like to know please??
I need advice please.
I am so sorry, that sounds dreadful. This is making you so unhappy and your husband needs to recognise that and try to work on improving the state of your marriage. Life is too short to spend so unhappy in your marriage. If I was in your position I would insist that your husband sit down with you for a long talk to sort out how you can improve things. If he won’t try to work on making your relationship more healthy and happy then I think you need to consider ending the relationship, but hopefully when he fully takes on board what this is doing to you he will make the effort to work with you to make things happier. Good luck.