Published on 12, July, 2020
My GP has referred me to the mental health team twice for autism assesment, I have been turned down twice. I dont know why, the letter is a standard letter and everything goes through the GP. I real feel i need an assesment and my AQ was 52. I have many of the factors, but i dont know what to tell them. Im really depressed and anxious about everyting. The other week i burst out crying in a job interview because everything was just to much. Obviously no hope of getting that! I have a job but i have been mimum wage for 20 years because im "not good with people".
If i was assessed and told i dont meet criteria, i could accept that but to be turned down just feels like i hit a wall.
Tell them everything! I suggest that you write to your doctor and Community MH team, saying why you think you need an assessment. Tell them everything! It's confidential, so dont be embarrassed. I used to put my behaviours/ symptoms, etc. down to being anxious and my childhood experiences. Until in my 50s, i realise there are far too many, so then the penny drops, and it all makes more sense. I think when that happens, we know.
In my experience a letter is much more helpful.
They have likely refused an assessment, because your "symptoms" arent enough to go on. This is why it is important to be very open.
E.G. any childhood memories of how you were? Relationships? Repetive behaviours? Overwhelmed? Leading to anxiety & depression? Melt downs? Uncontrolable emotions?
If you dont succeed raise a " concern" with the health board. X