I think my mum is Autistic

I could never understand why my mum never told us she loved us  never hugged us, was often cruel to us. To this day at 94 years old and being cared for very well by my sisters, she is difficult. She is a good woman but often horrible.  We have been kind and caring to her and it has been very difficult. In the 1960's she had a stay in a mental hospital, we were placed in care. She was very anxious. She has been particularly cruel to my brother. She has been very anxious, has poor social skills, and an be so direct it is offensive.

We needed her. Everything is now becoming clearer.

Now i think of it, we had a severely disabled cousin, his sister shows symptoms of autism, lacks social skills,  isolation 

Do you have an autistic parent? X

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  • Tulip,

    I'm fairly sure that my late mother was autistic but didn't know.

    She was a very proud women who worried endlessly about appearances. What others thought of us, or what she *thought*  they thought of us, was an all consuming concern.

    Ben

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  • Tulip,

    I'm fairly sure that my late mother was autistic but didn't know.

    She was a very proud women who worried endlessly about appearances. What others thought of us, or what she *thought*  they thought of us, was an all consuming concern.

    Ben

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