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Support for my Male NT Partner

NAS86624
over 1 year ago

Hi,

First time posting. I am female, currently undergoing the diagnostic process - I actually had my formal assessment today.

My partner is struggling with the difficulties I face overall, and now that I'm faced with this new information, in particular. 

I am looking for a place he can find support specifically for NT men with female partners with ASD.

All forums and groups seem to be focused on supporting NT women in relationships with ASD men (probably because of the historical prevelance of ASD in men vs females), but he feels like he needs to connect with other men since, let's face it, there are differences between how people of different genders and gender identities experience the world.

Any recommendations?

Thanks Slight smile

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  • over 1 year ago

    Hi 

    Thanks for the reply. Yes, I am going through a very difficult time at this point and am seeing a therapist once a week and taking a lot of time for myself. It's why I'm wanting to know if there is support for my partner because while I am drowning, he is right there beside me trying to put my life vest on while staying afloat himself.

    I don't want to get to the end of this process and have him completely burnt out and our relationship along with him.

    I don't expect to come through this unscathed, but I want to do as much damage control as possible. 

    Also, he is very special to me and I can't imagine what this must be like for him. He says often "I'm learning too, just like you." I just want him to have somewhere to go wherr he can vent a bit and say the things he can't say to me.

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  • over 1 year ago

    Hi 

    Thanks for the reply. Yes, I am going through a very difficult time at this point and am seeing a therapist once a week and taking a lot of time for myself. It's why I'm wanting to know if there is support for my partner because while I am drowning, he is right there beside me trying to put my life vest on while staying afloat himself.

    I don't want to get to the end of this process and have him completely burnt out and our relationship along with him.

    I don't expect to come through this unscathed, but I want to do as much damage control as possible. 

    Also, he is very special to me and I can't imagine what this must be like for him. He says often "I'm learning too, just like you." I just want him to have somewhere to go wherr he can vent a bit and say the things he can't say to me.

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