Autism assessment

I posted not so long ago about my assessment. Could have been missed because I was banned for posting a link about squids Face palm‍♂️ 

anyway, I find out next week but my mum just basically said I was a normal kid. Despite not being and really struggling. I’m hoping the assessor seen through that but....I’ve been so angry. My other siblings didn’t struggle but I just got left behind without any help. I’m not sure if it was guilt on her part. It’s been a bad week but I spoke to my other brother who seen that I did struggle with things. The same things I struggle with now.

anyone else experienced this? 

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  • Your mum probably thought you were just a normal child, because she saw you everyday, and you were always the same to her. Do you understand what I mean? ASD isn’t easy to spot, especially to someone who had never heard of Autism, or realised what it can look like in different people. I mean, god, I didn’t realise I was autistic until I was 46 lol.
    I spent nearly 6 years fighting for my daughter to get diagnosed and I still didn’t realise Laughing 

    When I asked my mum if she noticed anything different about me, she said she didn’t. When I went for my diagnosis, she wrote some things down about me as a child. She didn’t think they were Autistic traits, as she was like that herself as a child. She said I was quiet, I didn’t speak much, I was serious, I was clever, big vocabulary, shy, artistic, excellent memory, ordered, few friends, played alone etc. None of that stood out to her, but why would it when she was the same, and it was back in the early 70’s? 
    Of course, through my daughters diagnosis, and mine, my mum now realises she is also autistic and it’s been very eye opening for her, and she is learning about herself for the better.

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  • Your mum probably thought you were just a normal child, because she saw you everyday, and you were always the same to her. Do you understand what I mean? ASD isn’t easy to spot, especially to someone who had never heard of Autism, or realised what it can look like in different people. I mean, god, I didn’t realise I was autistic until I was 46 lol.
    I spent nearly 6 years fighting for my daughter to get diagnosed and I still didn’t realise Laughing 

    When I asked my mum if she noticed anything different about me, she said she didn’t. When I went for my diagnosis, she wrote some things down about me as a child. She didn’t think they were Autistic traits, as she was like that herself as a child. She said I was quiet, I didn’t speak much, I was serious, I was clever, big vocabulary, shy, artistic, excellent memory, ordered, few friends, played alone etc. None of that stood out to her, but why would it when she was the same, and it was back in the early 70’s? 
    Of course, through my daughters diagnosis, and mine, my mum now realises she is also autistic and it’s been very eye opening for her, and she is learning about herself for the better.

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