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I've came to the conclusion...

John

I've came to the conclusion that I should just leave my crush alone because she told me that I should. She is a mean, selfish and spoiled brat.

Opinions? Do you think I should just leave her alone?

Thanks,

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  • At some point our words and actions need to sync up. Stability will require us to evaluate what we want and better ways to navigate life. She sounds incredibly immature. And while she might have her own trauma to work through, this way of behaving isn't helpful but hurtful. 

    If she's someone you care about, maybe take some time to get to a place where you can express kindly that these blocking and unblocking reactive ways of going about things aren't how you'd like to engage with others. They're ok when we're young. But there is much to be said for kindness, thought-fullness and respectfulness.

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  • At some point our words and actions need to sync up. Stability will require us to evaluate what we want and better ways to navigate life. She sounds incredibly immature. And while she might have her own trauma to work through, this way of behaving isn't helpful but hurtful. 

    If she's someone you care about, maybe take some time to get to a place where you can express kindly that these blocking and unblocking reactive ways of going about things aren't how you'd like to engage with others. They're ok when we're young. But there is much to be said for kindness, thought-fullness and respectfulness.

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