I've came to the conclusion that I should just leave my crush alone because she told me that I should. She is a mean, selfish and spoiled brat.
Opinions? Do you think I should just leave her alone?
Thanks,
I've came to the conclusion that I should just leave my crush alone because she told me that I should. She is a mean, selfish and spoiled brat.
Opinions? Do you think I should just leave her alone?
Thanks,
At some point our words and actions need to sync up. Stability will require us to evaluate what we want and better ways to navigate life. She sounds incredibly immature. And while she might have her own trauma to work through, this way of behaving isn't helpful but hurtful.
If she's someone you care about, maybe take some time to get to a place where you can express kindly that these blocking and unblocking reactive ways of going about things aren't how you'd like to engage with others. They're ok when we're young. But there is much to be said for kindness, thought-fullness and respectfulness.
Yes I will leave her alone, she's no longer my friend anymore
Probably but I don’t think that extends to avoiding your mutual friends and places you both go. She can’t reasonably expect your friends to choose between you and her or for you to avoid the venues and events you both frequent. Assuming you met her that way you will see her again. So to be clear giving her space means not going out of your way to engage with her. You don’t have to actively avoid her, particularly if your social life would suffer.
Not sure what's happeneing but if she is messaging you on whats app to chat to you and then telling you she needs space and blocking you afterwards then it sounds like you might be better off without her in your life as all the stress and confusion of that wont do you any good. People sending mixed signals is very confusing and sometimes its just best to take ourselves away from the situation entirely . Hope this helps and things work out for you
I've came to the conclusion that I should just leave my crush alone because she told me that I should. She is a mean, selfish and spoiled brat.
Opinions? Do you think I should just leave her alone?
Thanks,

You mean THIS poor girl? Absolutely you should leave her alone.