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What was your life like before you knew you were autistic?

Homebird

There have been quite a few comments recently since the recent documentaries about the experiences of those of us who are older. This made me wonder how my life would have been like had I known why some things were difficult. I spent a lot of my life wishing I could relate to others more easily, like others I came in contact with.  I guess since knowing I have wished less to be like others and tried to accept how I am. 

I had some interesting experiences in my younger days, including a few trips to interesting places abroad. I am glad I have those memories. However today I find a lot of ordinary things challenging and am happy to be at home a lot of the time. I have always found home to be my safe place, but occasionally managed to go beyond my comfort zone.

How have others found the change since knowing they were autistic?

Parents

  • Phases of it were okay. There were times when by accident I ended up living an autistic-friendly lifestyle and doing more or less okay. The rest was terrible. People were constantly trying to change me in ways it's not possible for me to change.

    Since realising I'm autistic, for the first time in my life I've experienced being in the comfort zone people were always telling me I needed to get out of. It's nice. I plan to spend as much of the rest of my life here as possible.

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  • Phases of it were okay. There were times when by accident I ended up living an autistic-friendly lifestyle and doing more or less okay. The rest was terrible. People were constantly trying to change me in ways it's not possible for me to change.

    Since realising I'm autistic, for the first time in my life I've experienced being in the comfort zone people were always telling me I needed to get out of. It's nice. I plan to spend as much of the rest of my life here as possible.

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