40+ No driving license, passport, bank account, etc...

I'm so embarrassed to apply for these things and that's why I keep putting it off. Embarrassed and ashamed because of my age and been judged. Because I don't have any forms of ID, it makes it hard to acquire ID. You can't open a bank account without a passport or a driving license and vice versa. I was told the only way forward is to apply for a passport, but I would have to attend immigration to determine my identity and it would be an hour interrogation. I tried to open a bank with my government benefit documents and birth certificate but that failed, so my only option was to open a bank account for people in debt that requires a monthly fee. However these types of banks cant be used as ID because anyone can apply for them. Been interrogated by immigration and all the personal questions they would ask, fills me with dread.

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  • I feel like the judgement is the reason why it took me till 32 to apply for a passport, i dont drive and I do have a bank account but I was forced to go to college and follow in my father footsteps in catering.. which I really hate. 

    I dont know what to say, I say just do it and try your best 

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  • I feel like the judgement is the reason why it took me till 32 to apply for a passport, i dont drive and I do have a bank account but I was forced to go to college and follow in my father footsteps in catering.. which I really hate. 

    I dont know what to say, I say just do it and try your best 

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