Deleted because I feel its unfair on the other people who's event it is. Pull my socks up and stop moping.
Deleted because I feel its unfair on the other people who's event it is. Pull my socks up and stop moping.
To be fair I'm regularly like:
"Sorry I'm late, but I didn't want to come."
Especially to meetings that really should have been an email.
I feel like that feeling is a lot more universal than people think it is.
LOL I love your honesty! I could probably get away with that at work to be honest. But not with family! Ive tried to be dry in my humour before and people think im being serious. Of course allistic people get that feeling too. But I feel its prevalent / different / with different reason a,ongst the autists!
It certainly sucks at least twice the mental energy out of us than Neurotypicals tbh. Not that a lower tolerance for bullplop (in this case pretending things are fine when they really aren't) is necessarily always a bad thing. :)
See that is interesting, we are truly a spectrum because I have a very low tolerance, I only cope by constant maintenance and scheduled breaks.
I do think there are different tolerances. We have a higher toletance and then burnout. I think i have quite a good bull plop detector but it doesn't always make a noise.
I do think there are different tolerances. We have a higher toletance and then burnout. I think i have quite a good bull plop detector but it doesn't always make a noise.
See that is interesting, we are truly a spectrum because I have a very low tolerance, I only cope by constant maintenance and scheduled breaks.