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My friend has started dating,

Bodhisattva- neil

I don’t have a large amount of friends, most people I interact with are colleagues and the interaction is work based.

my social circle is made up of two ladies, both a similar age to me, one of them has been dating guys for as long as I can remember. I have never been over bothered by “boyfriends” that have come along and gone away. 
The second friend has recently started dating a guy and it has really effected me., so much so that I considering pulling away from her. 
Has  anyone else felt like this and how have you behaved in a situation such as this 

all thoughts are welcome.

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  • I had two close friends who grew up together (with each other not with me). When they started dating I was worried they might have less time for me, they did but it wasn’t like they disappeared from my life either. When they broke up with each other though they really started to drift apart from me. Even though they assured me they were still good friends. Even though they acted like friends in each other’s company.

    it was like loosing that relationship was a trigger for them wanting me out of their lives. At least it felt that way. I don’t know if it was the same with their other mutual friends.

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  • I had two close friends who grew up together (with each other not with me). When they started dating I was worried they might have less time for me, they did but it wasn’t like they disappeared from my life either. When they broke up with each other though they really started to drift apart from me. Even though they assured me they were still good friends. Even though they acted like friends in each other’s company.

    it was like loosing that relationship was a trigger for them wanting me out of their lives. At least it felt that way. I don’t know if it was the same with their other mutual friends.

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