Published on 12, July, 2020
Thanks to Number in another thread (root beer) I've been thinking of the many things I've just 'not got' and done wrong.
Usually the clue that I'm not 'getting it' is the look of wonder on the faces of other people.
I'm suspecting now this may be autism related.
There are countless examples during my life but here a few.
McDonalds: I don't really understand McDonalds and I don't spend time in them without another person.
My mum used to like them so I'd take her there for lunch sometimes.
One of the 1st times she asked me to collect a menu for her and some cutlery.
I couldn't understand why these weren't on the table.
So, I went to the counter and asked for these things.
After this initial trauma, I then had the trauma of trying to understand what you are supposed to eat off of and with.
Doh.
McDonalds is a particular thing with me I think.
I was with my autistic friend on our way back from visiting his mother and we went to a McD.
He asked me to get him a 'root beer'.
So, I asked for such at the counter only to be asked what that is.
I said 'I don't know' so no root beer was presented to my friend.
Another prime example is going to a spa and swimming baths in a hotel.
I'm not a swimmer or a spa goer.
So, the 1st thing I did was put my make-up on before going there.
Then, I couldn't understand how the lockers worked and had to get assistance.
Then, I eventually found the toilets but couldn't find my way back to the swimming pool so I walked through reception soaking wet in my swimming costume.
I was also in a church once when a service began and loads of people sat around me.
I had gone in there because I was in a strange city and cold and was using the church as a refuge.
I thought I could just sit there whilst the service took place.
I hadn't anticipated communion and although I'm not a Catholic or a church goer, and although I didn't understand what I was doing, I felt obliged to follow everyone up and take communion.
There are so many examples I won't continue.
Is it just me or are there other people here who just don't 'get it?'.
I don't get why people still go out, visit family for instance when they know they've got a cold or flu bug which they freely and knowingly spread to everyone else.
When I'm ill I stay away from people until I'm feeling better and I'm past contagious stages.
I also don't get why people walk looking at their phones. I've even seen mums walking with their children whilst looking at their phone screen - it's so dangerous.
There's a lot of things I don't get but I'll leave it here :)
Lol. I am one of the mums who does that. Usually only only on the way to or from school, when I'm aware that they know the way and won't wander too far. I'm also constantly listening for their footsteps and glancing up so I know where they are and am aware of the surroundings. And i know that i can trust my kids to be sensible and stop when I say so.
Oh sorry, no offence intended to you and others who are careful - I was meaning people who just walk in the road, staring at their phones causing cars to stop suddenly. I've seen a few times now where accidents would have happened if the car hadn't stopped in time.
That's what I was getting at. I see a lot of people who still look before they walk out and are obviously aware of what's happening - but also lots out there who aren't aware and it's super dangerous.