My mom told me twice so far ''You will end up like your father'', it's the most hurtful thing I can imagine I could hear from her. she was really angry with me on both occassions, but in my opinion it was not enough to say something so horrible. Still I've never confronted her about it, and I'm trying to avoid confrontations with her all my adult life for many other reasons as well. Now she is 66, and I'd rather spare her that. Especially that I don't need that confrontation, and I don't think it would solve anything, to the contrary it would surely make things worse.
But it hurts. You should put your family on permanent ignore list
