Pretty sure all marriages with kids have that rough couple of years so you have to be very careful about ascribing diagnostic terms which can hold a lot of stigma onto another person just because you don't like their behaviour. My advice is go seek a marriage counselor first before relying on anyone's unqualified opinions re: is your wife who none of us have ever personally interacted with autistc. (Because honestly we can only only tell you if our experiences resonate, and it's a wide spectrum so you could get loads of answers that just feed into a confirmation bias. And that is not reliable, we cannot diagnose your wife any more than you can.) If the marriage counselor thinks something is up then maybe they as a 3rd party can say something and see if your wife wants to get tested.
Pretty sure all marriages with kids have that rough couple of years so you have to be very careful about ascribing diagnostic terms which can hold a lot of stigma onto another person just because you don't like their behaviour. My advice is go seek a marriage counselor first before relying on anyone's unqualified opinions re: is your wife who none of us have ever personally interacted with autistc. (Because honestly we can only only tell you if our experiences resonate, and it's a wide spectrum so you could get loads of answers that just feed into a confirmation bias. And that is not reliable, we cannot diagnose your wife any more than you can.) If the marriage counselor thinks something is up then maybe they as a 3rd party can say something and see if your wife wants to get tested.
