Did anybody find a person to help you understand your parts of Autism?

NAS64138 said:

I don't know if those things are unchangeable Autism things, or changeable non Autism things, or changeable Autism things with specific strategies.

From the last so many years of researching, there appear 3 things which are key human factors which cannot change (from my knowledge).

1: Autistic Sense-Perception and the inability to filter out incoming signals. Whether internally or externally. Here is a link to human senses:

What this means. We can be more connected to earth, to our being, to pain senses and nuances in the body. We can sharpen our ability to make distinctions between sound and light shade and temperature and scents. But we will also be more quickly overwhelmed and terrorised by external sensory elements if we do not take protective measures to shield ourselves. *this can also be impacted by the imagination: to envision a future only for it to not happen can be a bit of torment. The sense of dependability or the practicalities that follow are deeply impacting regardless of a meeting cancelled, the wrong cup of tea or a marriage that didn't work out. 2. Forms of expression to communicate rather than Dominate. This includes words. We can learn over time to build our vocabulary but as a form of communication. Unless learned, words and phrases and language in general, all have a more pragmatic and analytic use rather than the momentary subtext. We might be able to learn these other meanings, but in my experience by the time I've learned what something means, the NeuroTypcial population has moved on.

3. A sense of everything-all-at-once, everything being connected, a state of hyper-focus and possibly hyper-flow. These are all due to Gamma Waves and summed up by Monotropism.org There is an interplay between these and GABA, which is different in our neurotype and creates a biological form of anxiety when Gamma waves accelerate out of control. 

In my inquiries, I've learned it's important to work out the difference between Trauma and the autistic-wiring. I've found stoic philosophy helpful and understanding the ethics behind manners important. I've found that sometimes my thoughts are related to 'picking up' or sensing a system happening around me which is difficult to identify but with - years (I'm sorry to say) - of digging into psychology and philosophy and matters of the human soul, much can be fixed when human relationships care about being respectful, affording dignity, seeking understanding and affirming another. Sometimes when I'm overwhelmed I can protect others from me by taking a moment to regroup. Breathing, exiting, recollecting what's important. We are impacted Intensely. That will never go away, it's part of the sensory impact we cannot filter out. But I can chose kindness and I can chose to respond appropriately, which can mean exiting a toxic situation, letting go of someone who isn't kind and feeling that impact, allowing my self space to work though it. 

Growth is available for everyone. Be the best you. find your limits and weaknesses and invest in friendships which facilitate equal support. Always have something to bring, it does more for one's own soul than can be imagined. 

NAS64138 said:

I don't know if those things are unchangeable Autism things, or changeable non Autism things, or changeable Autism things with specific strategies.

From the last so many years of researching, there appear 3 things which are key human factors which cannot change (from my knowledge).

1: Autistic Sense-Perception and the inability to filter out incoming signals. Whether internally or externally. Here is a link to human senses:

What this means. We can be more connected to earth, to our being, to pain senses and nuances in the body. We can sharpen our ability to make distinctions between sound and light shade and temperature and scents. But we will also be more quickly overwhelmed and terrorised by external sensory elements if we do not take protective measures to shield ourselves. *this can also be impacted by the imagination: to envision a future only for it to not happen can be a bit of torment. The sense of dependability or the practicalities that follow are deeply impacting regardless of a meeting cancelled, the wrong cup of tea or a marriage that didn't work out. 

2. Forms of expression to communicate rather than Dominate. This includes words. We can learn over time to build our vocabulary but as a form of communication. Unless learned, words and phrases and language in general, all have a more pragmatic and analytic use rather than the momentary subtext. We might be able to learn these other meanings, but in my experience by the time I've learned what something means, the NeuroTypcial population has moved on.

3. A sense of everything-all-at-once, everything being connected, a state of hyper-focus and possibly hyper-flow. These are all due to Gamma Waves and summed up by Monotropism.org There is an interplay between these and GABA, which is different in our neurotype and creates a biological form of anxiety when Gamma waves accelerate out of control. 

In my inquiries, I've learned it's important to work out the difference between Trauma and the autistic-wiring. I've found stoic philosophy helpful and understanding the ethics behind manners important. I've found that sometimes my thoughts are related to 'picking up' or sensing a system happening around me which is difficult to identify but with - years (I'm sorry to say) - of digging into psychology and philosophy and matters of the human soul, much can be fixed when human relationships care about being respectful, affording dignity, seeking understanding and affirming another. Sometimes when I'm overwhelmed I can protect others from me by taking a moment to regroup. Breathing, exiting, recollecting what's important. We are impacted Intensely. That will never go away, it's part of the sensory impact we cannot filter out. But I can chose kindness and I can chose to respond appropriately, which can mean exiting a toxic situation, letting go of someone who isn't kind and feeling that impact, allowing my self space to work though it. 

Growth is available for everyone. Be the best you. find your limits and weaknesses and invest in friendships which facilitate equal support. Always have something to bring, it does more for one's own soul than can be imagined. 

NAS64138 said:

I don't know if those things are unchangeable Autism things, or changeable non Autism things, or changeable Autism things with specific strategies.

From the last so many years of researching, there appear 3 things which are key human factors which cannot change (from my knowledge).

1: Autistic Sense-Perception and the inability to filter out incoming signals. Whether internally or externally. Here is a link to human senses:

What this means. We can be more connected to earth, to our being, to pain senses and nuances in the body. We can sharpen our ability to make distinctions between sound and light shade and temperature and scents. But we will also be more quickly overwhelmed and terrorised by external sensory elements if we do not take protective measures to shield ourselves. *this can also be impacted by the imagination: to envision a future only for it to not happen can be a bit of torment. The sense of dependability or the practicalities that follow are deeply impacting regardless of a meeting cancelled, the wrong cup of tea or a marriage that didn't work out. 

2. Forms of expression to communicate rather than Dominate. This includes words. We can learn over time to build our vocabulary but as a form of communication. Unless learned, words and phrases and language in general, all have a more pragmatic and analytic use rather than the momentary subtext. We might be able to learn these other meanings, but in my experience by the time I've learned what something means, the NeuroTypcial population has moved on.

3. A sense of everything-all-at-once, everything being connected, a state of hyper-focus and possibly hyper-flow. These are all due to Gamma Waves and summed up by Monotropism.org There is an interplay between these and GABA, which is different in our neurotype and creates a biological form of anxiety when Gamma waves accelerate out of control. 

In my inquiries, I've learned it's important to work out the difference between Trauma and the autistic-wiring. I've found stoic philosophy helpful and understanding the ethics behind manners important. I've found that sometimes my thoughts are related to 'picking up' or sensing a system happening around me which is difficult to identify but with - years (I'm sorry to say) - of digging into psychology and philosophy and matters of the human soul, much can be fixed when human relationships care about being respectful, affording dignity, seeking understanding and affirming another. Sometimes when I'm overwhelmed I can protect others from me by taking a moment to regroup. Breathing, exiting, recollecting what's important. We are impacted Intensely. That will never go away, it's part of the sensory impact we cannot filter out. But I can chose kindness and I can chose to respond appropriately, which can mean exiting a toxic situation, letting go of someone who isn't kind and feeling that impact, allowing my self space to work though it. 

Growth is available for everyone. Be the best you. find your limits and weaknesses and invest in friendships which facilitate equal support. Always have something to bring, it does more for one's own soul than can be imagined.