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Refuse to be unemployed because of my addiction

Thom George

see my other thread about me struggling not to lose my job 

community.autism.org.uk/.../difficulty-at-work

But anyhow you all know me, the 35 year old guy who goes to prostituties cuz he can’t get a girlfriend. Bigger problem is it’s an addiction of mine as bad as a drug addiction, I spend about $500 a month on these women and all I care about. I use my money from work to suooort my habit. But if I get fired, I am obsessed on finding a new job just for that one resson

i researched and saw that SSDI doesn’t pay enough for me to alone survive, yet support my prostitution habit. So I have to have a new job to get by. Otherwise I fear I will make bad choices such as skipping out on bills and rent to pay these women or even if it gets bad enough, committing crimes to have money for my habit.

Bottom line is I can’t go in SSDI and have to work full time so I have money for this activity. And this isn’t me just wanting sex. It’s me going to these women in which I  bring them to my apartment, drive them in my car to show off as my girlfriend, hold hands with and make out with - basically I’m paying these couple women to pretend to be my girlfriend. But ya this is equivalent to me being a drug addict and needing money to support my habit 

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  • It doesn't seem to me that you want to put an end to this pattern or addiction, as you say. I don't mean it in a judgemental way. i just don't see you saying that you would like to stop anywhere.

    If you do want to stop (and I'm not saying you should), you may want to talk to a therapist or simliar mental health professional about how you could try to get these needs covered in a different way, perhaps one you find more agreeable or less expensive.

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  • It doesn't seem to me that you want to put an end to this pattern or addiction, as you say. I don't mean it in a judgemental way. i just don't see you saying that you would like to stop anywhere.

    If you do want to stop (and I'm not saying you should), you may want to talk to a therapist or simliar mental health professional about how you could try to get these needs covered in a different way, perhaps one you find more agreeable or less expensive.

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