Help!

I was wonder if anyone could help me understand, My ten year old hates surprises, he had a meltdown over not knowing the details of a walk, I said I might take them on (didn’t want to tell details incase, I couldnt manage to take them)

This lead to major distress, can anyone here help me understand from his point of view?

New here, and on this journey too.

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Mark over 3 years ago

For me, I like to know what’s going to happen. If I don’t I worry a lot. I even dress for the occasion, know what to take and I can plan my escape if I don’t like it.

if I was going out with friends and plans changed I would panic.

Your son probably doesn’t understand why he’s getting upset but he will understand all of that when he’s older
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NAS82900 over 3 years ago in reply to Mark

Your correct, he doesn’t understand, if I ask him he just says he doesn’t know. This is very new to

both of us, I have a lot to learn in how I can best support him. I appreciate all the replies.
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NAS82900 over 3 years ago in reply to Mark

Your correct, he doesn’t understand, if I ask him he just says he doesn’t know. This is very new to

both of us, I have a lot to learn in how I can best support him. I appreciate all the replies.
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