Being Used

I guess I'm not alone in this, sadly, but does anyone else get used by people who you thought were friends and nice who cared about you but were just using you for money or for fun?

I had these people, four girls who I've known for a few years and I thought we were friends. I don't really know how to make friends but they seemed nice straight away and they seemed to like me. Sadly I found out today they have just been using me. I like to buy gifts for them because they were so nice and today I was in the studio and I heard them outside, guess they didn't know I was there and they were saying horrible things about me and Jade said this exactly "if my friends found out I hung out with a retard I'd be finished" and they all laughed. Apparently I'm the retard. I'm a bit hurt and I feel a bit of an idiot. Should I have seen this before? I don't know. They've always been really nice to me. But I heard them saying all this and then they were saying at least I'm generous.

I don't understand friendship like how to tell who true friends are and how to see the bad ones.

I wish I knew others on the spectrum but sadly I don't. Why are people so mean?

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  • Ivy,

    I too have been taken advatage of and used, e.g. I've twice had people steal things from my house after being invited in.

    My advice is to just walk away, they are not who you thought they were; they are, in fact, two faced liars. You don't need them.

    I know it hurts when you find out, but you will get over it..

    At least you now know.

    You are a better person than any of them.

    Ben

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  • Ivy,

    I too have been taken advatage of and used, e.g. I've twice had people steal things from my house after being invited in.

    My advice is to just walk away, they are not who you thought they were; they are, in fact, two faced liars. You don't need them.

    I know it hurts when you find out, but you will get over it..

    At least you now know.

    You are a better person than any of them.

    Ben

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