Job interviews that didn't go well

I thought others might be interested in sharing their experience of job interviews.

I am in the lucky position now of not having to work but I found it very hard in the past to get a job because I found the interviews so wholly traumatic.

In fact, the last years of my working life I worked for agencies because then I didn't need an interview.

Possibly the  worst:  I was being interviewed as a secretary for a Church of England Cathedral.  I was asked 'what part do you believe that the Church of England plays in the lives of ordinary people today?'.  My reply was that I feel it is irrelevant to the majority of people, who only really find it relevant at Easter, Christmas, Weddings and Funerals.

I knew immediately that although I spoke as I felt it was completely wrong and I should have lied.  Their faces dropped and I think they would have liked me to leave the room immediately.

Now I understand why I spoke as I felt in the light of my autism diagnosis.  I find saying what people expect/want me to say very difficult, despite many decades of 'masking'.

Job interviews (and jobs) are a huge test of a person's social skills and their ability to dissimulate, I think.

Does anyone else have a story to share?

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  • Most of my interviews went badly wrong.  In several I was told to my face at the end that I didn't get the job and honestly in their opinion I was so bad that I was unemployable.

    Now, my nine month temporary job finishes in two weeks and it's back to the job centre and endless interviews.  I'd rather kill myself.

  • Im feeling the same. Now that my job has finished I am expected to go to the ****ing job centre every week even though I have a fit note from the doctor which means I shouldnt have to, is making me very ill mentally

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