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I have never felt regret, guilt or embarrassment in my life

Elaine Yu

I'm 26 and it's weird because some people around me would say they felt these emotions during such and such situations but I could never feel this. Is this something up with Asperger's Syndrome?

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  • i dont feel regret, everything i do is right at the time and wouldnt have been done in any other way. so no one should feel regret, as no matter what they always do what they felt right and responded correctly according to their brain at the time so regret is a bit of a redundant feel that no one should have.

    guilt, i dunno that one is dependant on your empathy and having wronged someone, and see you have wronged them ,then feel bad about it.... could i feel that? ... i dunno, as with my last point everything i do would have been right and not done any differently, if i make a mistake and it does wrong then that still wouldnt have been any different and id still have made a mistake, but yeah i can feel guilt for it and a want to put any mistake right. then id get pissy when i put it right and they dont accept my putting it right and making it even.

    embarrassment, yeah, thats random. and usually based on social things,i dunno maybe getting bad attention and not being able to defend or articulate your point and then feeling like a fool as the spotlights on you and you fail to verbally win your point over and end up looking like a clown even when your point is pretty solid in your head and could win them if you know how to get it out.

    mainly though i think the one that we look back on previous events though is cringe... im sure we all feel cringe, look back on previous things then cringe on it and it perhaps makes us even spurt out a verbal tic with how bad the cringe is.

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  • i dont feel regret, everything i do is right at the time and wouldnt have been done in any other way. so no one should feel regret, as no matter what they always do what they felt right and responded correctly according to their brain at the time so regret is a bit of a redundant feel that no one should have.

    guilt, i dunno that one is dependant on your empathy and having wronged someone, and see you have wronged them ,then feel bad about it.... could i feel that? ... i dunno, as with my last point everything i do would have been right and not done any differently, if i make a mistake and it does wrong then that still wouldnt have been any different and id still have made a mistake, but yeah i can feel guilt for it and a want to put any mistake right. then id get pissy when i put it right and they dont accept my putting it right and making it even.

    embarrassment, yeah, thats random. and usually based on social things,i dunno maybe getting bad attention and not being able to defend or articulate your point and then feeling like a fool as the spotlights on you and you fail to verbally win your point over and end up looking like a clown even when your point is pretty solid in your head and could win them if you know how to get it out.

    mainly though i think the one that we look back on previous events though is cringe... im sure we all feel cringe, look back on previous things then cringe on it and it perhaps makes us even spurt out a verbal tic with how bad the cringe is.

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