Talking about your autism

I am recently diagnosed but I have suspected I was autistic for a while.  From the outset, I adopted a policy of being completely open with people about my autism as it felt like the right thing to do, because I thought that if people knew what it was like, it would help them to understand me.

Now, I am starting to wonder if I am oversharing with people.  I have noticed people try to change the subject whenever I start speaking about it and I do wonder if it is starting to annoy people. That then makes me anxious and I spend hours after spending time with colleagues and friends agonising over whether I have made an idiot of myself.  I would be interested to hear people's experiences of what they did post diagnosis and any strategies you have around oversharing stuff.  Thanks.

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  • I've read a lot about autism/aspergers and suspect I may be on the high-functioning end of the spectrum. Do you have any advice for an adult on getting a diagnosis? Or somewhere online where I can talk to like-minded individuals?

    I ask, because every time I've said in the internet, "I am undiagnosed but I think I may have autism" I get beaten into the ground for being a "faker" and it usually takes about 6 months before I get the courage to mention it again. I just want to talk to someone about it...

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  • I've read a lot about autism/aspergers and suspect I may be on the high-functioning end of the spectrum. Do you have any advice for an adult on getting a diagnosis? Or somewhere online where I can talk to like-minded individuals?

    I ask, because every time I've said in the internet, "I am undiagnosed but I think I may have autism" I get beaten into the ground for being a "faker" and it usually takes about 6 months before I get the courage to mention it again. I just want to talk to someone about it...

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