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Reading people and romantic relationships?

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I was wondering if autistic people cannot read people how would you know if you like someone romantically?

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As I was told by a psychiatrist that when you have autism you struggle to read people, which surely means understanding the character that would make you fall for them? 

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  • Not reading certain body language or read certain signals from someone, doesn't stop you for from liking someone romantically.

    As there is other things like aesthetic attraction, having the same interests, communicating through speech, doing activities together, having the same future goals and ambition and so.

    Not reading people is more like not knowing what that person, thinks, feels, is trying to suggest, trying to say, or if they are bored and etc.

    But to the autsitc person, all they know is how they feel about that person and that things are great. But what I struggle with and others is not picking up the other persons body language or signals.

    Like for instance if someone likes me and was flirtying and doing all that sorts, I wouldn't even know or pick up or understand that they are flirtying and liking me, I probably wouldn't respond. 

    Or for instance if I like someone and I'm busy talking, thinking they are having a nice time cos I am. But that person isn't communicating back, they are bored, unimpressed, I wouldn't pick up on that at all, as I find it hard to read people. So I wouldn't have a clue that the person doesn't like me. 

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  • Not reading certain body language or read certain signals from someone, doesn't stop you for from liking someone romantically.

    As there is other things like aesthetic attraction, having the same interests, communicating through speech, doing activities together, having the same future goals and ambition and so.

    Not reading people is more like not knowing what that person, thinks, feels, is trying to suggest, trying to say, or if they are bored and etc.

    But to the autsitc person, all they know is how they feel about that person and that things are great. But what I struggle with and others is not picking up the other persons body language or signals.

    Like for instance if someone likes me and was flirtying and doing all that sorts, I wouldn't even know or pick up or understand that they are flirtying and liking me, I probably wouldn't respond. 

    Or for instance if I like someone and I'm busy talking, thinking they are having a nice time cos I am. But that person isn't communicating back, they are bored, unimpressed, I wouldn't pick up on that at all, as I find it hard to read people. So I wouldn't have a clue that the person doesn't like me. 

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