Does anyone else here get sick and tired of constant rejection

i dunno how to fix it, but when lonely and thinking on it and searching i found that oxytocin is the love and contact hormone and it changes how you act and how others accept you and respond to you... then i found that someone did research and found that a defect or lack of oxytocin could be to blame for autism like issues such as social withdrawl and not being accepted by society.

so perhaps finding a way to get this oxytocin stuff could be a fix? most people get it from human contact and touch and so on, but ofcourse we cant get it that way and perhaps cant get that unless we first get a dose of it to perhaps make us more approachable and acceptable.

or maybe i just looked into it too hard and thought too much lol

i dunno how to fix it, but when lonely and thinking on it and searching i found that oxytocin is the love and contact hormone and it changes how you act and how others accept you and respond to you... then i found that someone did research and found that a defect or lack of oxytocin could be to blame for autism like issues such as social withdrawl and not being accepted by society.

so perhaps finding a way to get this oxytocin stuff could be a fix? most people get it from human contact and touch and so on, but ofcourse we cant get it that way and perhaps cant get that unless we first get a dose of it to perhaps make us more approachable and acceptable.

or maybe i just looked into it too hard and thought too much lol

Caelus said:

i dunno how to fix it, but when lonely and thinking on it and searching i found that oxytocin is the love and contact hormone and it changes how you act and how others accept you and respond to you... then i found that someone did research and found that a defect or lack of oxytocin could be to blame for autism like issues such as social withdrawl and not being accepted by society.

It is more a case of not being socially included that causes oxytocin levels to be particularly low ~ with years or which creating more long-term issues, just as conversely adrenaline levels run high if we are more active or of course more stressed and anxious ~ involving resulting free radicals causing toxic burnt out over long durations.

It is definitely though the case as you state that if there is a oxytocin production deficit ~ regarding dysfunctions in the hypothalamus and or the the posterior pituitary ~ social or personal intimacy will to the same extent be limited, or prevented.

Caelus said:

so perhaps finding a way to get this oxytocin stuff could be a fix? most people get it from human contact and touch and so on, but ofcourse we cant get it that way and perhaps cant get that unless we first get a dose of it to perhaps make us more approachable and acceptable.

Most certainly for many autistic and other socially allergic or excluded people including of course the elderly, what with ‘pet therapy / assistance’ having long been associated with better recovery rates from ill healh and surgery ~ and less illness on the whole over the long term too, meaning as one example that housing associations have to make exceptions and allow pet ownership for tenants that need a consistent ‘oxytocin fix’ or ‘dose’ by way of pets. Some that are otherwise inclined get their dosages increased or in another way by looking after house plants and or gardening.

Caelus said:

or maybe i just looked into it too hard and thought too much lol

Or much more as it appears a very well considered and just as well described point of view.

I sometimes think of getting a cat as at least id get a tiny big if oxytocin if it liked me enough to allow a pet or cuddle. But its a responsibility that needs careful consideration.