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Is divorce a better option

Weazelbeast

The past year has bee  a nightmare for my family. Constant anxiety..struggling....talking about my peoblwm over and over. Alot of blame on myself for being less than ideal..feeling like a grown manchild constanyl on edge with reaponaibility when im only doong bare minimum as it is.

I dont see how we can ever be a functional family with my list of deficits...codependancy and wanting sameness over moving up in world.

I feel she would be better moving on from me. I cant seem to get my head around myself and when i realise im really nor thinking like an adult i fear she will never jabe an equal. 

Life has fallen apart and i want so little as an adult i seem.jaded by life itself...just following. With all these issues should i just accept what might be inevitable...that my needs will be too mixh for a nt to hold as baggage...least with someone else they may move towards goals rather than my anxiety laden existance.

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  • Your being pathetic, I have no sympathy to give you.You are behaving like a grown man child.

    You are perfectly capable of sustaining a family, yours is just going to be different from the typical and that's not a bad thing. Most children grow up healthy and happy with the bare minimum.

    most children who come from broken homes tend to grow up angry and maladjusted. So stop wasting your time and energy looking for sympathy on this forum and make some small changes. making the effort no matter how slowly it shows and it sustainable.

    If your anxious all the time, Go and make a doctors appointment, doesn't matter if you have to wait awhile for the appointment just intaite the help.     

      

  • in reply to Blue

    Bit Sergeant major like presentation, but hell yeah!

    That's what being a man is all about, getting a grip and taking charge of your situation then extending it to your family situation.

    For a start, I bet you are the major "spider wrangler" in your household. Build on that.

    Add a bit of DIY skills and suddenly they are lost without you!

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  • in reply to Blue

    Bit Sergeant major like presentation, but hell yeah!

    That's what being a man is all about, getting a grip and taking charge of your situation then extending it to your family situation.

    For a start, I bet you are the major "spider wrangler" in your household. Build on that.

    Add a bit of DIY skills and suddenly they are lost without you!

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