Advice / Books for Expectant Father with ASD

Hi everyone,

How are you doing?

We just found out that my wife is pregnant and are very happy about this. This would be our first child! 

I was diagnosed with ASD and ADHD last year. It's been a really difficult period for us and I am currently signed off work sick as I develop better strategies for being autistic in a non-autistic world. 

Does anyone have any advice for an expectant father / parent with ASD or any books you would recommend? I guess I am most worried about letting my wife down or saying / doing something inappropriate. 

Thanks,

J