Family and Bullies

Hi, first of all sorry for my slight outburst yesterday. This weekend has been the first time we have had someone to stay since lockdown. I always find having people in the house very stressful. I thought as this person is family that it was safe to tell them of my autism. I got told that,  “ I just don’t like anyone” I tried to explain that I have trouble understanding people. I got met with, “ you need to try more and not make this autism thing all about you”. I felt that I was back in the school playground with a bully. This went on for about 15 minutes, I don’t know if I’m angry or disappointed, most probably a bit of both.

This person is supposed to be highly educated, she had been drinking, I suppose someone’s true colours come out then. She is leaving today and I hope she won’t return.

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  • Oh Roy, I feel so sad for you that this family member's stay with you turned out the way it did, and caused you to feel the way you do.

    Maybe it was the drink talking and they didn't actually mean what they had said, or maybe this family member is actually quite ignorant. Who knows? At least you can breathe a sigh of relief now, knowing that she is leaving today.

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  • Oh Roy, I feel so sad for you that this family member's stay with you turned out the way it did, and caused you to feel the way you do.

    Maybe it was the drink talking and they didn't actually mean what they had said, or maybe this family member is actually quite ignorant. Who knows? At least you can breathe a sigh of relief now, knowing that she is leaving today.

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