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Boundary blending with social cohesion

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With Autism my boundaries are very rigid and set. I get overwhelmed when those boundaries are invaded by external stimulas,, aka people and overwhelming situations.

I find I have a meltdown on boundary change instigated by others external and get overwhelmed, maybe not by the sitution itself, but the way which the engagement I feel in pushed or forced upon me,,, they are just going to fast so to say.

Is there a way of blending boundaries(autism and the world) so that social cohesion is easier,, i.e trust, calmest and relaxed ?

How can you slow down or get used to the worlds fast moving boundary changes, or as I call it social blending without difficulty to increase my social cohesion ability ?

Any thoughts ? Smile

 

 : "o"(autism) + "o"(world) = 8(boundary bending into social cohesion) ~ equation 1. Laughing

 

 

 

 

 

 

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  • Susie,, I took Longman ideas, more to do with creating positional control, he seem to be analysising the herd environment and positioning himself relative to the conditions with his condition reducing the self conflict, basically making a path like the hunter in the environment.... What this posts have shown me there is always aspects within the environment which are better suited to your condition, so learn and follow them.

     

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  • Susie,, I took Longman ideas, more to do with creating positional control, he seem to be analysising the herd environment and positioning himself relative to the conditions with his condition reducing the self conflict, basically making a path like the hunter in the environment.... What this posts have shown me there is always aspects within the environment which are better suited to your condition, so learn and follow them.

     

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