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So I’ve been on whispers4you for over a month and nothing… decided to just get bumble and all the women look like super models so I’m basically saying to myself oh my fucking god before every swipe, Ran out of swipe lmao I felt like I was having a mild heart attack when I was setting it up and for the first few swipes. I know it every unlikely any will message me but even if they did what do I say? Hey I’ve been alone with myself for 10 years avoiding people lol they all have vast picture of adventure and hanging out with group of other good looking people. I look at them and they all look so grownup and confident and I’m like the dude out of Edward scissor hands lmao Im in my 30s and i dunno what to do, it all f*cked.

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  • Internet dating actually stopped me dying a virgin!I just never got the whole dating thing, in my teens even had girls ask me out but I refused as I had no idea. Anway around 2000 I was a early internet adopter and there were some dating websites around. They tended to be much more serious and deep back then as there were no smartphones and broadband was new. I found online dating a god send! I could think about things before talking to somebody, I had information about them, I knew the basics. Back then there was no instant responce due to no smart phones. Anyway I dated 3 girls, one for 2 years other two for 6 months. Then I was single for 6 months and met my wife on there, now together for 17 years. 

    From what I have seen of modern dating apps they frightern me, it seems to be all about looks and nothing else. Maybe try some of the sites that are more serious, assuming there are some around still?

  • in reply to NAS65321

    I probably get the impression that there are genuine people and fake people on dating sites. I don't think dating companies police the websites enough. I know it can be difficult to sort everything out but they do need to have more online presence and sort it out. 

    I know there is always someone put there for me but I have to keep trying and eventually the right woman will come for me. I always believe in honesty and the more honest someone is. The more they trust you.

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  • in reply to NAS65321

    I probably get the impression that there are genuine people and fake people on dating sites. I don't think dating companies police the websites enough. I know it can be difficult to sort everything out but they do need to have more online presence and sort it out. 

    I know there is always someone put there for me but I have to keep trying and eventually the right woman will come for me. I always believe in honesty and the more honest someone is. The more they trust you.

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